I'm selfish . . .

As I've gotten older, I've become more selfish w/my time. I'm mostly ashamed of this trait since I know my brother could use my help right now since he is moving into his new house, and I haven't called to offer any help. He has all his buddies that are more able to move his crap, but I know I could help with the cleaning of his old house or even help by watching my niece. Yeah, I suck, but I'm still not calling.